Didn't you know I was perfect?

Not quite. Some may even say......far from it. I know a few that could say that right now.

Truth is.....I'M NOT PERFECT!!! Surprise surprise! The jiggs up.

I've never claimed to be perfect. Ever. I own up to my mistakes.....to things that have gone wrong in my life....I take accountability for things that happen in my life. I control the good and the bad. As do each of you reading this.

Happiness is a choice. Some days we wake up and think to ourselves....ooooooooooooooooohhhhhhweeeeeeeeeeee.....Today is going to be good. And on others.....you wake up in an instant crappy mood.

My main thing here....possibly one of my biggest pet peeves is not taking accountability for things that go wrong in your life. If something is wrong in your life.....you are the only one who can change that. And if you try to slide along saying that if so and so didn't do whatever or if whatever hadn't happened to me, then I would be ok. Knock it off already. Your life is where it is because you brought it there. It's not because this or that happened to you. Chances are, you weren't doing what you were suppose to be doing in the first place.

Step 1: Accept your mistakes and stop blaming other. How are we suppose to be strong if always put the blame on someone/something else.
Step 2: Not only accept your mistakes, but take accountability for them. For instance, If I live a hundred more years.......all unhappy. That is my fault. No one else to blame but myself.
Step 3: Learn how to be able to depend on yourself. It's nice to think that others will always be there for you......but unfortunately, they won't. As I've said before....YOU determine your happiness.
Step 4: Start thinking for yourself.....you don't want it to be to late and become a 50 year old woman/man still trying to figure them selves out. Know your beliefs.....and don't bend. This is your life. Even if you are made to feel like you don't have a voice........speak it. Sooner or later....it will be heard, and they would have wished they had heard it earlier.

I'm going nighty night.......finish up tomorrow. Looooves you!